Love Jar Activation

For being found, and being wanted back.

You bought a jar. I made it and charged it by hand. You cast it. Everything you need came in the box.

What is in it

Rose for love as it is actually lived, thorns included. Jasmine to make you findable. A red jasper to steady it.

A salt base under all of it. Plus a petition slip, a chime candle, and the card that sent you here.

You need a pen and something fireproof to set the candle on. Take ten minutes when nobody needs you. That is the whole requirement.

Write it down

Some of what other women have written:

• I am with someone who is kind to me and easy to be around.
• I am wanted by someone I want back.
• I am open, and the right one finds me by summer.

Write it in present tense, like it already happened. Be specific. A number, a name, a date if you have one. Vague in, vague out.

Fold it toward you

Fold the slip in half toward your body. Turn it a quarter turn and fold it toward you again. You are pulling something in, so every fold comes toward you.

Load it and cork it

Pull the cork. Slide the folded slip in on top of the herbs. Push the cork back in firm.

Seal it

Light the candle. Let it burn a minute or two, until there is a small pool of wax at the top. Tip it over the cork and let the wax run down over the seam, turning the jar as you pour so it runs all the way around.

Set the candle where nothing can catch, and never leave it burning when you walk out of the room.

Say it out loud

Hand on the jar, said once, out loud. Out loud is what separates a wish from a spell.

Where it goes

Put it where you get ready to be seen. The dresser, the bathroom shelf, the nightstand.

Touch it when you pass it. Once a week or so, pick it up, shake it once, and say your line again.

Timing

Friday belongs to Venus, and a growing moon draws things toward you.

Timing makes a working stronger. It does not make it possible or impossible. If you need it tonight, cast tonight.

When it is done

When someone is actually in your life, thank it and retire it. Retire it early rather than late. A jar for finding is not a jar for keeping, and that is a different working.

Do not open it. This one draws things toward you, and opening it scatters what you built.

Bury it whole on your own land. No land? A big pot of soil you keep works, or a friend or family member’s ground with permission. If none of that is available, carry it off your property and put it in the trash somewhere that is not your home.

Questions

I burned the candle down before I sealed it.

Relight what is left, or use any candle in the house. The wax is the seal, not the spell. If there is no wax at all, push the cork in tight and skip that step. The jar still holds.

I wrote the wrong thing.

If it is not sealed yet, pull the slip out and write a new one. If it is sealed, leave it alone. Write the corrected version on a scrap and keep it under the jar. The jar works on what you meant.

Do I have to be a witch for this to work?

No. You have to mean it and you have to say it out loud. Plenty of women casting this jar right now would never use the word witch about themselves.

Nothing has happened.

Give it a full moon cycle before you decide. Then look honestly at whether the thing you asked for needed a move from you that you have not made. A jar opens a door. It does not walk you through it.

Is it safe around kids and pets?

Keep the sealed jar up out of reach. It is glass with a stone in it, and a broken one is a real hazard. The candle gets the same rules as any candle in your house. The herbs inside are kitchen herbs.

Want more spells?

The Grimoire is free. It is the workings I actually use, written the way I would tell you at my kitchen table.

Send me the Grimoire

There are four of these. Money, love, family, career. See all four.

I make the jar. You make the magic.
Melanie